Find the time to, when you coax (3,5)
I believe the answer is:
get round
'when you coax' is the definition.
I can't tell whether this defines the answer.
'find the time' is the wordplay.
'find' becomes 'get' (synonyms).
'the time' becomes 'round' (I can't justify this - if you can you should give a lot more credence to this answer).
'get'+'round'='GET ROUND'
'to' is the link.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for get round that I've seen before include "Avoid" , "Evade (a restriction)" , "Influence in one's favour, coax (3,5)." , "Influence in one's favour or circumvent" , "Coax to become circular?" .)