Stew at ball? A delicate matter (3,6)
I believe the answer is:
hot potato
'a delicate matter' is the definition.
(I've seen this before)
'stew at ball?' is the wordplay.
'stew' becomes 'hotpot' (I've seen this before**).
'ball?' becomes 'o'.
'hotpot'+'at'+'o'='HOT POTATO'
(Other definitions for hot potato that I've seen before include "Is one warm in one's jacket" , "Awkward thing" , "troublesome affair" , "Troublesome situation concerning thermal spud" , "Awkward matter" .)