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Become more active in social, taking girl away from jerk (3,2)

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I believe the answer is:

hot up

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'become' is the definition.
The definition and answer can be both related to change as well as being verbs in their base form.
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(Other definitions for hot up that I've seen before include "more active" , "become more lively" , "Become more exciting" , "intensify" .)

I've seen this clue in The Hindu.
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