English fat guy coming round, showing neglect (9)

'round showing neglect' is the definition.
The definition and answer can be both states of affairs as well as being singular nouns.
Perhaps you can see a link between them that I can't see?

'english fat guy' is the wordplay.
I cannot quite understand how this works, but
'english' could be 'e' (abbreviation) and 'e' is found in the answer.
'fat' could be 'suet' (suet is a kind of fat) and 'suet' is present in the answer.
'guy' could be 'dude' (both can informally mean a man) and 'dude' is found in the remaining letters.
This accounts for all the letters.
This may be the basis of the clue (or it may be nonsense).

'coming' acts as a link.

Can you help me to learn more?