I have the same women's clothing on, and a flower? (10)
I believe the answer is:
snapdragon
'a flower?' is the definition.
(I know that snapdragon is a type of flower)
'i have the same women's clothing on' is the wordplay.
'i have the same' becomes 'snap' (as in the card game).
'women's clothing' becomes 'drag' (I've seen this in other clues).
'snap'+'drag'+'on'='SNAPDRAGON'
'and' is the link.
(Other definitions for snapdragon that I've seen before include "one's found in the garden" , "Garden plant" , "flower" , "that's in the garden?" , "One blooming" .)