Parents, for example, upset by vandalism (6)
I believe the answer is:
damage
'vandalism' is the definition.
The definition and answer can be both acts as well as being singular nouns.
Maybe you can see an association between them that I can't see?
I cannot understand how the rest of the clue works.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for damage that I've seen before include "Harm, impair" , "Cost (slang)" , "Harm, injury" , "Ravages" , "vandalism?" .)