Relative is mostly vague (5)
I believe the answer is:
uncle
'relative' is the definition.
(uncle is a kind of relative)
I can't explain the rest of the clue.
Can you help me to learn more?
(Other definitions for uncle that I've seen before include "one who's taken the pledge" , "Family relation" , "Brother of one's parent" , "older relative" , ". . . . . Sam, the US government" .)