Remember what, until her rude awakening, Goldilocks didn't have? (4,2,4)
I believe the answer is:
bear in mind
'remember' is the definition.
(to bear something in mind is to remember it)
'until her rude awakening goldilocks didn't have?' is the wordplay.
I cannot quite understand how this works, but
'her' could be 'min' and 'min' is found in the answer.
'have?' could be 'bear' ('bear' can be a synonym of 'have') and 'bear' is found in the answer.
The remaining letters 'ind' is a valid word which might be clued in a way I don't see.
This may be the basis of the clue (or it may be nonsense).
'what' is the link.
(Other definitions for bear in mind that I've seen before include "Consider" , "Remember and take into account" , "Take into consideration" , "what big game hunter may have" .)