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Succeed when you fetch something to fetch a female (3,2,8)

Ross

I believe the answer is:

get it together

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'succeed' is the definition.
(I've seen this before)

'fetch something to fetch a female' is the wordplay.
'fetch' becomes 'get' (synonyms).
'something' becomes 'it' (I've seen this in other clues).
'fetch' becomes 'get' (synonyms).
'a female' becomes 'her' (I've seen this before).
'get'+'it'+'to'+'get'+'her'='GET IT TOGETHER'

'when you' is the link.
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(Other definitions for get it together that I've seen before include "succeed" , "Achieve one's full potential" .)

I've seen this clue in the Sydney Morning Herald.
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