Tolerate daughter having facial hair (5)
I believe the answer is:
beard
'facial hair' is the definition.
(I've seen this before)
'tolerate daughter' is the wordplay.
'tolerate' becomes 'bear' (synonyms).
'daughter' becomes 'd' (genealogical abbreviation).
'bear'+'d'='BEARD'
'having' is the link.
(Other definitions for beard that I've seen before include "In good health; very" , "where food sometimes trapped?" , "Oppose with effrontery" , "SECOND PART OF 14" , "Facial hair" .)